Happy and lovely
relationship have eluded so many, so much that each time the word love is
mention it sounds like a fairy tale in their ears. One prominent question in
the lips of many is, "What can
you do to make a relationship work?" The answers
may be complicated, so might be disturbing is you ask many people, but the
truth remains, that we often neglect the
little things that could spin our love affair to a long lasting one,
filled with happiness, below are some Rules that, in fact, reveals simple, proven advice for having a lovely, happy long-lasting relationship.
1.
Manner your manners. Behaviour
matters a lot, your disposition, expression and talk, some persons find it
difficult to pronounce words like ‘please’, ‘thank you’ and
‘sorry’ either they are too proud or they dim it not necessary, whereas these
can go a long way to prove to your
partner that you respect and love them and don't take them for granted.
2. Spice-up
your love with variety. Going
through same routine every now and them can be very boring and make a
relationship dull; this can lead to dissatisfaction. Exploring
new grounds can be as simple as playing an unfamiliar game, visit to strange
places, change of routine, cooking a new recipe together. Making new
discoveries together can spark new light in the relationship and keep you feeling closer than before.
3. Playing together, will make
you stay together. Have an
hobby, in short not just one, many could a kind of sport or in door activity
that you both enjoy and make it a priority in your relationship to enable you
relax together and bond within the activity. Check out this article ‘Enhancing
your love life with recreation’ and see if you find something you both enjoy
doing together.
4. Fight rightly, not violently. Arguments are necessary ingredients if they are productive,
your arguments can’t be productive unless you abide by certain rules: Don’t
talk bitter at your spouse and don't call your spouse names. When things get really messy, take a
break from the discussion. Always allow your partner person finish his/her
statement, while you listen.
5. Take time to reason together. Reasoning together, will create room for better solution
to problems, since two heads are better than one, a relationship implies putting two together as one, in
other words resources are put together as well as liabilities but the strength
of resources joined together surely will quench every challenge when well
handled. Challenges should not be looked upon as the individual issue any more,
but with team efforts tackle them together.
6. Interact, discuss future
plans together. Interaction
or communication strengthens the understanding in a relationship, talking out
those tough issues like; philosophy, religion, money, fidelity, raising children,
will create room for evaluation and enjoying the company of one another.
7. Find time to laugh it out. Learn to laugh it out, laugh when he talk
naughty, learn to tease each other jokingly and laugh over it, rather than get
angry over little mistakes.
8. Stay Focused. Yes, a couple of odd issued
might crop up; that does not imply that he doesn't care about you. If you keep
your eyes fixed on the goal — to be in a happy, lovely relationship — you're
less likely to get worked up in every little mistake.
9. Develop a Habit for each
other. Form a
habit and keep it alive, no matter what. Like not going to bed without kissing
each other good night, eating together, or sharing a daily experience pick
something that makes your relationship remarkable and stick to it, even when there
is the temptation to skip.
10. Have a spiritual guide, a
mentor or a Counselor. Studies
have shown that partners who
seek counseling during challenging periods are more prone to resolving their
differences than those who don't. Whether religious figure, counselor or mental
health professionals, talking to an expert to help sort out strife is one sure
way to keep a relationship strong and healthy.